Dec 30, 2010

Greetings from Flin Flon

Good evening, Church,

Reaching out to you from St. Ann's in Flin Flon where I have finally landed after a week of liturgies, prayers and visiting. Your author is in need of a couple of quiet days as we push through to the Feast of Mary, Mother of God and The Epiphany.

I arrived this afternoon and will stay through until Saturday when I will return to The Pas for Mass on the Epiphany.


The shortage of clergy is affecting our region deeply and I ask for your indulgence as January promises to be a challenging month for our pastoral region. I am finding myself yet again reflecting on the need for the greater Church to adequately address the issue of why men are not becoming priests in North America. The answers are varied and many but pretending that "all is well" is only allowing us to barely "maintain" what we already have. How can we hope to grow in our Christian journey when priests are unreachable and scarce?

Your author is frustrated but I guess that is acceptable given the end of the year is looming on the horizon.

Tomorrow is a new day and a day that I'll be able to catch up on the mail and the postings. A warm thank you to all for the Christmas greetings and prayers over the last days - they are always appreciated and desperately needed. Thank you.

I apologize for the "rant"...

Good Night Church...as always, more to follow.

Dec 24, 2010

Christmas Message from Father Paul

From My Home to Yours...

Merry Christmas One & All:

Good Will

Have you ever envied someone else's good fortune? Consider the friend who calls with a different ring to her voice. Instead of sharing her troubles and woes, she proceeds to tell you good news. Something exciting, financially beneficial, glamorous, wonderful beyond belief has happened in her life. It's not a fantasy. It's one of those rare moments when a dream has come true.

That's wonderful, you may say, meaning every word.   At first.   Why her? You may later think. What about me? When am I going to get a break? As hard as we may try not to feel that way, a little jealousy, envy, and self-pity replace the joy we felt for our friend.

Most of us want other people to be successful and happy. We really do. That's not the problem. The problem comes when we think they're going to be happier or better than we are.

Sometimes we know when we're envying and resenting others. Other times it's a subtle undercurrent that we're not aware of, but it invades our lives. It may only be a slight feeling of smugness when we hear that something unfortunate has happened to someone we perceive as being more fortunate than we are.

Goodwill isn't just the name of a secondhand store or a phrase used in songs during the holiday season. It's a particularly challenging value to practice.

Dec 21, 2010

Education Goes Beyond Knowledge & Skills: Pope

Education is a vital necessity, and those charged with the education of the youth should work to impart not only knowledge and skills, but also human, cultural and religious values, says Benedict XVI. 

The Pope wrote this in a message he gave Thursday to Boubacar Sidiki Toure, the new ambassador from Mali to the Holy See, upon receiving in him and four other new envoys in audience, who presented their letters of credence. The Holy Father addressed the five ambassadors collectively -- from Mali, Nepal, Zambia, Andorra and Seychelles -- then gave each one a separate message.

"In a world characterized by the interdependence of peoples and the rapid spread of imitation of human behavior accompanied by growing individualism," the Holy Father stated, "education constitutes a vital and existential necessity."

The Pontiff noted that education is more than simply the "accumulation of intellectual knowledge or technical competence," and stated that "abilities should go hand in hand with knowing how to live and how to be so that, based on human wisdom and spiritual resources, they reflect better the essential truth of human existence."

"That is why," he continued, "in the education of their children, Malian families are not content with the academic results achieved, to the neglect of human, cultural and religious virtues. They offer their children the reference values that will lead them to the truth about life, about the duty of solidarity and of dialogue, which are co-existential to human nature."

Benedict XVI then urged the state to "state to support families in their task of education, and to watch over the intellectual and human quality of the educational personnel," and then encourage the youth to not let themselves "be seduced by easy money that could incite them to pact with networks that lead to criminality or drug trafficking."

Equal rights

Commenting on the Mali's commitment to reducing "inequalities between persons and social groups," the Pope mentioned in particular the Code of Persons and the Family, which he said will "contribute to social peace."

The Code of Persons and the Family, which Parliament passed last year, seeks to grant women equal rights by setting the legal age for marriage at 18, stipulating that both parties must consent to divorce, and gives parental authority to both the mother and father.

The Pontiff also noted the Church's contribution to education, which has formed several of the country's leaders, and health care. "The Church's commitment in formation and education," the Holy Father noted, "as well as in the charitable, health and social realms, shows her willingness to collaborate with the state, preserving the particular nature of her structures."

Noting that this year Mali marks its 50th anniversary as an independent nation, the Holy Father stated that for the nation to grow in peace and stability, it needs to safeguard and promote its intellectual, human and cultural values: "I want to encourage their preservation and transmission to the new generations, because a society served by persons gifted with a profound moral perspicacity, always promotes justice and peace. 

"The leaders of such a society are able to transcend their own interests to be virtuous governors totally dedicated to the common good. They are also able to cultivate human relations animated by trust and solidarity, mutual respect and sincere dialogue."

Benedict XVI urged the leaders of Mali to "help their compatriots to be reconciled among themselves after the conflicts that have marked Mali's recent history. I also invite them to struggle against discrimination between ethnic groups and religions."

"In fact," he added, "it is legitimate that the identity of each ethnic or religious community be expressed visibly, in mutual respect, fostering peaceful coexistence at all levels of the national community."

A "Just before Christmas" Reminder: Forgive One Another

Forgiveness is all-powerful. Forgiveness heals all ills.
--Catherine Ponder

 Getting mad at someone, a friend perhaps, is normal. Everybody gets mad sometimes. But when we stay mad for very long, it ruins all the fun we'd planned on having throughout the day. Staying mad multiplies. Sometimes it seems we are mad at the dog, our mom, another friend, even the TV.

Forgiving the people we're mad at works like magic. We don't even have to forgive them out loud. We can forgive them in our own minds. The result is the same. Pretty soon the whole day looks bright again. When we're mad, we are the ones who suffer most.

Who can I forgive today, and make my day a better one?

A Social Network Christmas

Good Morning Church...
A Wonderful Example of the Christmas Story in Today's Language.
Enjoy:

Dec 19, 2010

Feeling of Belonging

The feeling of belonging is a gift.

The feeling of belonging - knowing that we have a place - is one of the most important gifts that two partners can give to each other. When we agree to commit ourselves to a partnership, we give each other the key to our daily lives. We allow our mate to be there with us in a way we would not let others. That means that we can expect to have a place that does not have to be renegotiated every day. This feeling of belonging is a gift, but it must be received. In essence, we say to our partner, "I take my place here in your life because we have our relationship. I will relax. I don't stand at the door and knock. We have already told each other that we are included in each other's lives."

This sense of belonging stands in sharp contrast to those feelings of isolation and alienation that we can feel in so many ways. It does not mean that one partner owns the other or that no boundary or separateness exists. But the joy of connection frees people in relationships to fulfill themselves and carry on their lives while in the close comfort of one they love.

Tell your partner how you know you have a place in her or his life.